Active within: More than 2 weeks
Spokane , Washington
Seeking SugarBaby-Male 21 - 34
Ladies, please stop messaging me. You dont have the type of plumbing I am looking for. *One liners such as what's up, how you doing or no picture will be ignored* So I tried repeatedly to compose the perfect ad to find the perfect man. But there are so many things I want to say that it became almost impossible to express them all. And looking for the perfect man is probably the wrong approach. What I need is a man who is a good fit for me. I'm certainly not perfect. Just a little about myself... I'm a successful 52 year old GWM but younger in outlook and attitude, 5' 11" tall, a bear, 219# salt and pepper hair, green eyes, well adjusted, fun-loving, politically conservative, more than a little goofy, own a home, drive a four wheel drive, generous, opinionated, like cordials, favorite foods are Japanese, Spanish and Italian, listen to a variety of music, appreciate the arts, not really a sports fan, love the outdoors, camping, hiking, snowmobiling, quads, have a great circle of diverse friends. My life is full, varied and interesting with only one thing missing - I want to share it with a special man. There was a time in my life when I was very intense and quick tempered but I've mellowed to the point that most people can't imagine that side of me. I think there is a difference between "dating" and a "relationship". I've had a couple of long-term relationships and I've dated a number of men, some for several months, but I don't consider those "relationships" and while I think of those guys as friends, they aren't "ex's".
All I've seemed to have found on here so far are flakes and guys that want to play with my emotions, so hopefully there is someone out there that is different. First, be REAL, no lies. I cannot and will not tolerate someone who will lie to me. You must be able to travel freely. (You know who you are and what I mean). You must be LTR minded. If you' arent in the United States, dont message me. You must have a sense of humor - I have a good one and try not to take life too seriously. He has a job and has ambition and a desire to succeed. He is white, Hispanic, or Asian. He's fit/in-shape and cares about his appearance. Armani isn't a requirement, but good grooming is important. I am typically attracted to lean/athletic types. A narrow waist with a nice smooth chest is a real turn on. He loves travel. Also enjoy cities, beaches, the mountains, the desert, etc. He's a GWM. I have dated a variety of men and just prefer guys like myself. I have met a few bi guys, but most of them are not sure which side of the fence they want and I like to feel secure about a relationship. I am partial to men with dark hair and brown eyes, but I've dated my share of blonds. I'm usually not into facial hair unless it's a well trimmed go-t or soulpatch. Shaved or bald heads look good on some guys, but wouldn't be my preference. I like to run my fingers through his hair while his head rests in my lap. He doesn't smoke. He doesn't do drugs. 420 is ok if your life doesnt revolve around it. HIV neg and disease free. He is affectionate and romantic. Cuddling, holding hands, kissing, hugs - those are important to me. There don't have to grand PDA's, but wrapping around each other at a bar or kissing on the dance floor from time to time makes me feel good and the rest of the world can see that I found a great guy. He likes to go dancing. I don't mean every night, but a couple times a month is good. I love the thumpa thumpa of dance music and the social element of a dance floor. But I don't want to be a barfly - when I go out I don't know half the guys in the bar. He is versatile and passionate in bed. He is totally out - there isn't room on my closet for a person to hide. He has a sense of adventure and is eager to try new things. Keeping active and having a zest for life is vital. I prefer someone ages 21 to 32. He needs to look good, take care of himself physically and have a youthful outlook. I really don't want to date someone who looks and acts like he could be my father. He has self-confidence and minimal drama in his life. It is important to take anything slowly. The odds are that we will get along (I'm pretty darn likable), but if the romantic chemistry isn't there, I am always looking to make new, interesting friends. If you decide to respond, please tell me a bit about yourself and what you are looking for. I'd like to know about your interests, background, your life, your dreams. If you are one of the guys who posts daily for hookups here, or responds to every ad, thanks for reading but I'm not the guy for you. I will try to return responses, but if I don't get back to you, please don't take it personally. It may just be that we are not a fit.