Active within: Earlier today
Ft Myers, Florida
Seeking SugarBaby 18 - 80
I will always be striving to learn, experience, and achieve more in this life...I'm assured it will be much more then I ever imagined. I desire to build more loving and deeper relationships with others through this journey. Certain principles in my life's studies, can be brought to bear on all forms of relating, and the process of them can add a profoundly connected even spiritual dimension to any relationship. The best aspects of most spiritual traditions such as christianity, buddhism, hindu and tantra stress learning more about your inner states and cultivating equanimity, compassion and awareness. The cliche' that you can only love another after you've learned to love yourself is truer than we tend to appreciate. Self-love certainly begins with self-knowledge; when I set goals, or meet new friends I try to do it with a clear sense of who and what I want, coupled with a true appreciation of my best qualities. Being honest and real about this certainly makes me a far more appealing person as a whole. And it also helps me to choose wisely, the relationships and experiences I bring into my life. Parity is a prerequisite, and is not to be confused with absolute equality, since it implies equivalence in value between different currencies, rather than mere uniformity. Parity comes not from who does how much housework or who pays the bills, but instead from a real attitude of interest in, and appreciation for, one another. I've found it common in life in general, and in relating even more so, that the usual is to approach others with a self-serving mindset, a "What's in it for me" tendency. While I believe this is normal, it truly is self-defeating, it deprives us of the fullness of the experience. Genuine interest not only makes another more willing to open up, it creates the opportunity to enjoy the process of learning about that person as an end in itself. I am an attractive, intelligent, compassionate, easy going guy. Spontaneous, happy, honest, funny, romantic, sincere, outgoing, and a fanatic about my alma mater during college basketball season. (Go Golden Eagles) I'm independent, confident, and have old fashioned values. I'm a great cook, love trying new restaurants and entertaining at home. Enjoy a good movie on rainy days, concerts, theatre, and sporting events. I play tennis and racquetball whenever I can find a game. Anyone want to play?? I golf (if you can call it that as I am a bit of a hack) Enjoy all activities around water especially swimming, snorkelling, scuba (PADI Rescue Diver), and boating. Love to skinny dip with the right person. I also love a good game of chess. Doesn't anyone play anymore? You can learn a lot about a person over a chessboard and a bottle of wine. I grow super hot peppers like Ghost, Reaper, and Scorpion and I make hot sauce which will melt your face off. I have a hard time resisting weekend getaways to the Keys or Orlando's theme parks. Yes, my inner child still enjoys roller coasters and Space Mountain. I have a lot of love to give that special person in my life. Rather then finding a love I CAN LIVE WITH, I am looking for a love that I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT. So if you are looking for just a regular existence then don't bother with me because I will enrich your life in ways you can't even imagine. My ideal mate is very attractive, highly intelligent, honest, witty, romantic, and playful. She has old fashioned values and realizes the importance of communication. Her priorities are intact, she is confident, secure about who she is, and desires to connect with one special man on all levels. She brings as much to the table as I do. Our relationship is one based in honesty, love and respect. A mutual attraction and admiration with a zest for life. Together we advance confidently in the direction of our dreams, endeavoring to live the life we have imagined, and meeting with success unexpected in common hours.
I'm looking for some NSA fun and it will be mutually beneficial. Let's play ladies. Anyone want to make love underwater? I can hold my breath for more then 3 minutes and give you all kinds of pleasure. Plus I have scuba gear. Anyone want a lesson?