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I may be a bit old fashioned in the importance of being chivalrous; I hope that most women will feel taken care of in a positive way. For a partner who prefers to fend for themselves, so to speak. Being polite and treating women with respect, while being conscious not to undermine their strength and independence is the way to go.

. I am looking for that person who wants and loves spending time with a man who appreciates her for who she is and she appreciates him for the same. It may be an hour or two during a day, or an evening of great fun. A great lover and friend whose expectations and mine meld. Someone who will join me at events, if schedules match up. Enjoys a spa day just because, and is appreciative. This would be a start.