Perve...

I like straight-forward people because I like to know where I stand and I'm telling you now: I'm not a feminist, I don't pay for anything and if you're looking to explore your"Black chick" fantasies, I'm too difficult for such nonsense. I have no bias towards race in who I date because if you have integrity that's all that matters and if you don't have integrity, that's all that matters. Everything else is bullshit. I would love to have someone to hang with, chill with, smoke with, drink with, talk dirty with, get dirty with and still trust the next day. I love being a Woman and I love Men of all types, especially those who are True Lovers of Women. I am a "creative personality" that has never conformed, drank the Kool-aid or fallen in line so I do many things that keep me happy, fed and sheltered. I'm a photographer, writer, artist, mother, activist, Behavioral Control Technician-slash-impresario trying to change the world by getting everyone ridiculously stoned.

The Man I seek has evolved beyond the common and can see that neither he nor I are beholden to base desire. He is neither offensive nor sensitive and he knows that sometimes even I need gentle checking. I respect him because he demands it but never needs speak such things because in his presence, I know my place. I am always Woman and as such I expect him to be a provider, a masculine and strong example of manhood, not a reflection of celebrity or reality tv mockery. He is real, even if he's shallow, he's real about it. He is smart, savvy, well-read, well-traveled and can go from the White House to a Wal-Mart with equal confidence and comfort. He is mellow, slow to anger and able to maintain his demeanor, even in the face of a screaming angry Black woman. He must be brave, even if he has never held a firearm because his courage doesn't come from a weapon. He is powerful in both reputation and reality, dignified in the face of insult and so majestically commanding that a mere look makes a girl like me tremble in her thigh-high boots. I want to move from Vegas bcloser to Los Angeles and truer to the level of vibrancy and social interaction that stimulates my senses keeping me motivated and optimistic.